When you’re going through a breakup and you want to patch things up with your ex, it’s important to understand your ex’s emotional world.

You’ve probably already discovered that apologizing or promising that things will be different doesn’t really work.

The reason why is because there are some emotions lurking beneath the surface that need to be addressed first.

That’s what we’ll be talking about in this podcast episode…

Additionally we cover things such as:

  • Why your ex walls you out and gives you the cold shoulder
  • What makes your ex only give you simple one-word answers and how to deepen the conversation
  • Why your ex might give you mixed messages and hot and cold behavior
  • Why it’s actually a good sign if your ex flat out tells you to date other people or that you’re “too good” for them
  • When to have “the talk” about getting back together.

References in This Podcast:

  • The 5 Stages to Get Your Ex Back
  • Clay’s Exclusive Relationship-Saving Newsletter

Getting your ex back can be a difficult and complex topic in and of itself. In case you’re wondering this is stuff that we cover in extreme depth inside the our course the Ex Solution Program.


Clay is an author, blogger, and dating and relationship coach for Loving Boldly. He is also a nap enthusiast, coffee aficionado, and home brewer.

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