small__8271781446If you’ve been reading our newsletter for a while, you may remember that back around June we did something we never did before…

We decided to start coaching people directly one-on-one over the phone, working with them to develop a 100% personalized relationship plan tailored to their specific situation.

One of the people who we worked with is a guy named Stephen.

Stephen was in a difficult situation that many people might consider hopeless…

His partner had just left him a few months earlier.

  • She was 19 years younger than him.
  • She lived across the world in Thailand.
  • They came from very different cultures.
  • She was currently in a new relationship with another guy.

Some would say the cards were stacked against him to begin with…

For most people even just one of those circumstances would be enough to make them throw in the towel and give up.

And to be honest, Stephen had his doubts when we first started working with him too.

After 3 months, and you wouldn’t believe the changes we saw in Stephen…

Check out what Stephen had to say about his experience working with us.

1) Where were you in life when you signed up to work with us?

My girlfriend and I had broken up a few months back I pushed her away without realizing and she had a romantic interest with another man. The situation appeared futile since she stopped communicating. I was devastated emotionally to say the least. I tried every desperate thing that i could  to get my girlfriend back… Until I tripped upon Mika and Clay’s website. I decided to take their course. I liked it so much I decided to signup for their coaching program. I needed all the help that I could get so I would not make anymore well meaning, yet counterproductive mistakes.

2) What results have you gotten through working with us (the more specific the better)?

As I mentioned earlier the video course was helpful and Mika was wonderful about corresponding with me and providing valuable advice and support (unlike anything that I have found before). They started up a coaching program. I desired additional help in getting back together with my girlfriend or to move on in the event that we didn’t work out.

3) Has working with us made your life easier? How?

Clay and Mika spoke with me for an hour a week about my situation. They helped me to stay focused, gave me a reality check and encouragement when things were looking ugly. They were available via email almost anytime and responded to me within 24 hours.

I was so discouraged with where my relationship was going at times and I  was ready to quit trying, but Mika and Clay gave me the strength, advice and encouragement to stay the course. I’m glad I did.

4) What did you like about working with us?

Had it not been for Clay and Mika, I would have walked away from my relationship. They were flexible regarding the times that we spoke. They were caring, warmth and insightful.

5) Were you pleasantly surprised by anything during your time working with us?

You bet. I went from a seemingly impossible situation to being reunited with my girlfriend. In fact, we are applying for a fiancee visa so she can come to the United States… and possibly marry. Considering that I now have the woman of my dreams back in my life, the money I invested in their coaching program was worth every penny.

6) What is the most important thing people should know about working with us?

Mika and Clay are passionate about helping people get back together an supporting their clients. They are like close friends. Their advice was spot-on. Without it, I would have never gotten back together with my girlfriend. After working with Clay and Mika for several months, I am finally back with my girlfriend and we are talking about he possibility of getting married.

What This Means for YOU (and Your Relationship)


To be honest, Stephen faced more than one huge obstacle and at the end, he got his ex girlfriend back and co-created a stronger and more loving relationship than ever before.

It’s easy to think your situation is impossible and to just give up.

But the lesson we can learn from Stephen is… with hard work, determination, and the right attitude, you can truly open up doorways of opportunity (where others see only brick walls).

I know that times may not always seem easy for you when you’re going through a tough time in your relationship or your love life just isn’t where you want it to be.

But if you want a miracle in your relationship, you need to take action and create your own miracle.

As far as HOW Stephen got his ex back, and HOW you can create your own miracle, well, we’ll talk about that next time.

But in the meantime…

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Please let us know if you’ve ever been successful at something you thought was next to impossible to achieve.



Mika enjoys helping others overcome their limiting beliefs that prevent them from having the relationship they want. She is also not a fan of being tickled and hopes that one day, Clay, will finally realize that, as they have way too many tickle fights...And Mika has a not-so-secret love affair with chocolate.

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