Today I want to talk about People Pleasers.
What’s wrong with People Pleasers?
I mean isn’t bringing joy to others and serving the world the key to a fulfilling life?
Yes, but it all comes down to your motivation behind doing so.
If you are motivated by wellspring of love in your heart that overflows from a place of pure abundance, then you are doing it for the right reason.
If you are afraid of rocking the boat or deeply terrified that if you don’t live up to someone else’s expectations, then they will leave you, then you are doing it for the wrong reason.
But it also has a lot to do with the belief that your relationship is built on a shaky foundation, and you’d better fall in line or else that relationship is going to disappear.
And situations like this are often laced with Covert Contracts.